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What Causes Body Pain,headache And Premature Ejaculation?

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Posted on Fri, 31 Oct 2014
Question: Hello doctor, I am 24 year old male. I am doing masturbation daily since 7-8 years from 2006. Now my body started paining, I have daily headache problem, My eyes are always red, irritation . Daily I feel tired & I look for a sleep, Every organ in my stomach having pain from liver, kidney & almost all part of my chest & stomach, Whenever I watch any porn contents I easily gets evacuated. Now whenever I do masterbation I get evacuated within 10-20 seconds, I am feeling guilty on myself & I am in depression that within 1 year i will get marry & what & how would I face my partner because right now I have feeling that I am not able to have sex anymore..... I think I have become impotent???? Please suggest me something as I am in great trouble right now....
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Answered by Dr. T Chandrakant (22 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
This is very simple, fully recoverable and in you

Detailed Answer:
Hi young man.
I can understand the plight you may be going through.

To Me all your symptoms look to be more of a disturbed Psychology / anxiety / fear of unknown. Early evacuation is suggestive of the same. Masturbation / sex/ ejaculation- in fact every aspect of sex is related to the mind only, there is very little physical about it. Yourself are agreeing about the guilt you have developed.

One year is a long time. Why do you bother so early. You can get alright very very soon. You are NOT impotent- it means unable to do any act related to sex.

Masturbation 3 to 4 times in a week is absolutely a physiological and normal in any normal young adult of your age if you are not married.

Can you please elaborate how the masturbation was started ? On its own ?
Was there any reason like a personal / family or friends?
Do you watch pornography daily / how many times ?
What are the times you get so much time ?
Are you a student or in a job?

I am sorry that I have to ask you a few questions out of the many I still may need to ask you to go to the root-cause that you got altered habit of frequent masturbation. Once the cause is found by you and / or us, it may be very very easy to modulate the lifestyle and have such changes that you start doing masturbation few times a week as a pleasurable thing to relax you mind and body- not as a source to drain your mental and physical energy.

Firs of all throw away all the pornography material you have from your room / computer/ mobile; do not keep a single trace and be away from it at any cost if you want a successful treatment.

You can certainly recover from it. It can take hardly a few days. As I do not know your detailed history I can chart you a few common things.

First of all you have to become very social, mix up with people, friends and family, get involved into a constructive activity, hobby or so in such a way that you are busy all the time. This will not give you time to get engaged into masturbation. GO for outings / vacation / tours. Try not to be alone at all. This will automatically suppress your feelings and alter them to more positive approach and help concentration.

Reading inspirational books of biography, religion, success stories of great people and to learn how they mend their ways and life. No one would ever imagine what can change your life to the one where you are full of enthusiasm. Even the smallest of the incidence can change life drastically into a very positive one.

Have you visited the religious laces of your belief? If not plan one.
Try to involve into exercises, games, social events to build up the positive approach. You do not have to force yourself into a particular thing, try the things you liked once.

All these things can help you recover from your present problems , help you concentrate and get back the strength of your mind and body. You are just 24 and the real life is yet to get started. Nothing is impossible in life, this is a very small problem compared to the ones you are going to face of day-to-day problems in the future. Thy name is life. Get up, get ready to change fast and swift.

I am sure you can do it.
Once you are successful, you are going to be the happiest person , as I too am will be most happy to see your change. I do not think you need any medicines at the moment.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. T Chandrakant (10 hours later)
Dear doctor,
I was 16 when my friends suggested me to do masturbation as it's important for future sexual relationship. In my teenage I was not very much sure of this things but I started masturbating. It was giving me nice feeling & I carried on twice a day , daily & so on. After 2 years suddenly I started suffering problems such as tiredness, stomach pain, & many other problems. I taken treatment at that time but I never told a doctor that what I was doing???

I was sure that this problems arised only because of masturbating. Then for education purpose I traveled to another city where I controlled much but was of no use.

I completed my graduation & working as software developer for which I stay online 12-13 hours a day.
I don't have porn contents but as I stay online always it forces me to watch some porn content.
I tried to control much but I failed to do so. I can control it for XXXXXXX 2 day not more than that.
I don't watch porn daily but once in 2-3 days .
Because of my work I seat in a room alone with laptop & internet connection & only because of my work I am unable to go for outings etc.


As you said that I don't need any medical treatment but

1) what about my eye problem (I am having -1.0 Number for both eyes),
2) I have pain in my levers , kidney (what is that acutally & why I get pain ?)
3) After masturbating , pain suddenly increases in stomach part so it's clear that something is going wrong in my stomach (I don't know about organs in my stomach so I am using stomach as word).
4) My weight is varying from 45kg to 50 kg & My height is 162 Centimeter. My weight is too low as compared to my height.
5) If you will see me, then you will say you are looking like a 16-17th year old not 24 year old.
6) If I start doing some physical hard work ,then I easily get tired & my heart starts beating fast & fast. I cannot run or I cannot walk much due to fatigue.

Many more problems I am facing

1)I daily drink Tea 7-8 times a day, so tea has any negative effects on body or not???
I feel hungry but I don't like to eat & my weight graph is going down & down.
2) Do masturbating will decrease my sperm count or fertility?
3)Do I have chances of being able to have better sex life after masturbating near about 2,000 or more times till now.



Since last month I am daily going for morning walk at least 2 KM's.
I am daily visiting Temples so that I can spend my time somewhere else.


Please suggest me daily diet which will boost to improve my daily life.
Please suggest me what kind of exercise I must do?

please suggest me to get out of this hell??
doctor
Answered by Dr. T Chandrakant (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Consult a Specialist and investigations

Detailed Answer:
Tiredness, stomach pain, & many other problems > may not be related directly to masturbation at all.
It is difficult for one to keep away from the porn content if you are alone in a room with laptop and connection.
You will have to take time out f your busy schedule to have the social contact, this is very important and I know you can manage this easily., if you are serious about it. There is nothing in this world that is not possible. It is just a rat-race in which we get involved.

Read the other part of your question.
1. > Eye problem is not related to the existing problem we are discussing , get the vision corrected from the Eye Specialist.
2. / 3. > The pain in stomach particularly after masturbation has to be investigated. There may be an actual problem like Irritable Bowel Syndrome, Colitis/ prostatitis / or some more serious problem. For this you should consult a Gastroenterologist, preferably a General or a Gastro Surgeon for clinical examination and detailed investigations of blood, urine, stool, ultrasonography and / or CT scan of the abdomen. I have this suspicion due to your mentioned ( 4 / 5 / 6 > ) low weight / looking far younger / tiredness, fatigue and heart beating fast on physical hard work. . Any young male person of your age of ''24 '' years should be at the height of physical strength.
How can one really get corrected if you are working at the laptop for 12 to 13 hours per day? Is this without any break ? Or just continuous ?

The other part ::
1> Tea- it is fine if you take tea 7 to 8 times if you have noticed no side effects. But you will have to reduce it if you notice that tea is giving you any side effects like reduced appetite/ sleep or irritation.
You are feeling hungry but do not like to eat - means you need to change your food habits. Have great breakfast- small lunch, bigger brunch at 5 to 6 pm , and a dinner of your choice. If required change the mess / tiffinwala ( if you are away from home) .Stop junk foods strictly.
2> Masturbation has nothing to do with the sperm count if your overall health and testes are normal.
3> Masturbation has again nothing to do with the actual sex life. If you take it positively, under a bit control of 3 to 4 times in a week without the support of porno. Do not be worried about the sexual life now as you are not married yet. Did you have actual sex or a girl friend till now ?

It is great to know you have got aware of something and slowly increase the walking distance. Brisk walk is very good. Slowly get involved into other exercises also, join the Gym if you have at your city of work. You get new good and positive friends at such places. And you get a good trainer too, who can plan exercises according to your health and needs.
By the way which city are you working at the moment?

Great that you are visiting temples daily, so not ask for something, make it the best best for meditation to have a change-over of the thought. And do not do this purposefully. Meditation will help a lot and the changes will be automatic.

Diet will depend upon whether you are getting the food from mess / tiffin / home / whether you are vegetarian or mixed food habit.
Add pomegranate and other fruits. Good chocolates helps to elevate the moods.
NO JUNK FOOD- please...

Believe me - you are not in the hell and everything you are doing is by your choice, no one has forced you into the present situation- Once you realize this, it is very easy to come out of the problem.

A word of caution again. I have a feeling that you should go for complete check-up as mentioned above including X-ray of the chest along with consultation of a Gastroenterologist, preferably a General or a Gastro Surgeon for clinical examination and detailed investigations of blood, urine, stool, ultrasonography and / or CT scan of the abdomen to rule out any somatic / organic problem.



Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. T Chandrakant (9 hours later)
Dear doctor,
Thanks for you suggestions .

It was nice talking with you. And now I am confident that I can recover myself & Soon I will see the best happening in my life.

As per your suggestion I will go through some medical tests to make sure everything is right .

Just to answer your question, I don't have any girlfriend yet & I haven't maintained any physical relationship with any girl.

As per ur suggestion I will try more & more to stay away from Internet & Laptop.
I will do meditation & exercise daily.

I get food from Home & I eat mixed food veg as well as non-veg so please suggest me diet & suggest me what kind of fruits should I concentrate more.

Thank you doctor really it was awesome to talk with you & I got confidence to fight this situation.
doctor
Answered by Dr. T Chandrakant (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Thanks for your appreciation.

Detailed Answer:
Thanks for your appreciation and feedback.

No junk foods at all. Home-made food to continue. Sprouted pulses are the best source of proteins. Boiled eggs, large fishes with their oil contents, mutton are also good one. Try to avoid broiler chicken.

Fruits: Pomegranate is the best as also citrus fruits.

All the best , you are going to be successful and fully healthy.
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What Causes Body Pain,headache And Premature Ejaculation?

Brief Answer: This is very simple, fully recoverable and in you Detailed Answer: Hi young man. I can understand the plight you may be going through. To Me all your symptoms look to be more of a disturbed Psychology / anxiety / fear of unknown. Early evacuation is suggestive of the same. Masturbation / sex/ ejaculation- in fact every aspect of sex is related to the mind only, there is very little physical about it. Yourself are agreeing about the guilt you have developed. One year is a long time. Why do you bother so early. You can get alright very very soon. You are NOT impotent- it means unable to do any act related to sex. Masturbation 3 to 4 times in a week is absolutely a physiological and normal in any normal young adult of your age if you are not married. Can you please elaborate how the masturbation was started ? On its own ? Was there any reason like a personal / family or friends? Do you watch pornography daily / how many times ? What are the times you get so much time ? Are you a student or in a job? I am sorry that I have to ask you a few questions out of the many I still may need to ask you to go to the root-cause that you got altered habit of frequent masturbation. Once the cause is found by you and / or us, it may be very very easy to modulate the lifestyle and have such changes that you start doing masturbation few times a week as a pleasurable thing to relax you mind and body- not as a source to drain your mental and physical energy. Firs of all throw away all the pornography material you have from your room / computer/ mobile; do not keep a single trace and be away from it at any cost if you want a successful treatment. You can certainly recover from it. It can take hardly a few days. As I do not know your detailed history I can chart you a few common things. First of all you have to become very social, mix up with people, friends and family, get involved into a constructive activity, hobby or so in such a way that you are busy all the time. This will not give you time to get engaged into masturbation. GO for outings / vacation / tours. Try not to be alone at all. This will automatically suppress your feelings and alter them to more positive approach and help concentration. Reading inspirational books of biography, religion, success stories of great people and to learn how they mend their ways and life. No one would ever imagine what can change your life to the one where you are full of enthusiasm. Even the smallest of the incidence can change life drastically into a very positive one. Have you visited the religious laces of your belief? If not plan one. Try to involve into exercises, games, social events to build up the positive approach. You do not have to force yourself into a particular thing, try the things you liked once. All these things can help you recover from your present problems , help you concentrate and get back the strength of your mind and body. You are just 24 and the real life is yet to get started. Nothing is impossible in life, this is a very small problem compared to the ones you are going to face of day-to-day problems in the future. Thy name is life. Get up, get ready to change fast and swift. I am sure you can do it. Once you are successful, you are going to be the happiest person , as I too am will be most happy to see your change. I do not think you need any medicines at the moment.