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What Causes Difficulty Getting Orgasm During Intercourse?
Posted on
Sun, 9 Aug 2015
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Ask A Doctor - 24x7 Medical Review Team
Sun, 9 Aug 2015
Answered on
Fri, 28 Aug 2015
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Question : Hello doctor
I am newly married. 2 months completed. During intercourse with my husband, I didn't feel anything when we are in climax. But I have Interest in sex. I have pain sometimes but not getting pleasure during intercourse. My husband is perfectly having the pleasure and enjoying. But i cant. What to do for this situation? Please guide me.
I am newly married. 2 months completed. During intercourse with my husband, I didn't feel anything when we are in climax. But I have Interest in sex. I have pain sometimes but not getting pleasure during intercourse. My husband is perfectly having the pleasure and enjoying. But i cant. What to do for this situation? Please guide me.
Brief Answer:
need more information
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear, welcome to healthcare magic. I understand your concern.
In my opinion before going to furthur discussion I would like to know the following things:-
1)What is the age of yours and your husband?
2)Any problems related to family,financial,work or health?
3)Are you under any stress?
4)What is your height and weight?
5)How are your menstrual cycles?
6)Are you doing sufficient foreplay before going into intercourse?
7)Do you have interest in sex prior to marriage?
8)Any incident in past which made you lose interest in sex?
Looking forward to hear from you.
Kindly provide me the information.
Best regards...Dr.srilatha
need more information
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear, welcome to healthcare magic. I understand your concern.
In my opinion before going to furthur discussion I would like to know the following things:-
1)What is the age of yours and your husband?
2)Any problems related to family,financial,work or health?
3)Are you under any stress?
4)What is your height and weight?
5)How are your menstrual cycles?
6)Are you doing sufficient foreplay before going into intercourse?
7)Do you have interest in sex prior to marriage?
8)Any incident in past which made you lose interest in sex?
Looking forward to hear from you.
Kindly provide me the information.
Best regards...Dr.srilatha
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vaishalee Punj
Hello doctor thank for your reply.
My age is 23 and hubby age 28..
Weight 63 height 5.4 feet..
Yes we did enough foreplay..
Never met any accidents.
Regular periods also.
Yes I have financial problems and some work pressure.
I had expectations about sex before marriage.. But I came to know after marriage only.
Is this delay my pregnancy??
Kindly help me.
My age is 23 and hubby age 28..
Weight 63 height 5.4 feet..
Yes we did enough foreplay..
Never met any accidents.
Regular periods also.
Yes I have financial problems and some work pressure.
I had expectations about sex before marriage.. But I came to know after marriage only.
Is this delay my pregnancy??
Kindly help me.
Brief Answer:
Stress is the root cause
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear,thanks for the information.I understand your concern.
In my opinion pregnancy is possible even with mechanical intercourse.Because pregnancy occurs when the semen is ejaculated inside the vagina during the fertile period.
As your periods are regular and no other problem with you or your husband there is every chance of pregnancy.
To enjoy sexual pleasure you need a perfect coordination between body and mind.
Even though you are physically present if your mind is preoccupied with problems or stressful thoughts you cannot enjoy the sexual act.
So you need to first leave your thoughts outside your room.Ofcourse it is not so easy but comes with practice.
So I suggest you to relax well before intercourse and make your mind free of all thoughts.The best thing is to discuss regarding your work or financial problems with your partner so that you will develop good intimacy and your feelings will improve.
Hope this satisfies your query.
Feel free to discuss furthur.
Best regards...Dr.srilatha
Stress is the root cause
Detailed Answer:
Hello dear,thanks for the information.I understand your concern.
In my opinion pregnancy is possible even with mechanical intercourse.Because pregnancy occurs when the semen is ejaculated inside the vagina during the fertile period.
As your periods are regular and no other problem with you or your husband there is every chance of pregnancy.
To enjoy sexual pleasure you need a perfect coordination between body and mind.
Even though you are physically present if your mind is preoccupied with problems or stressful thoughts you cannot enjoy the sexual act.
So you need to first leave your thoughts outside your room.Ofcourse it is not so easy but comes with practice.
So I suggest you to relax well before intercourse and make your mind free of all thoughts.The best thing is to discuss regarding your work or financial problems with your partner so that you will develop good intimacy and your feelings will improve.
Hope this satisfies your query.
Feel free to discuss furthur.
Best regards...Dr.srilatha
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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