What Causes Early Ejaculation During Intercourse?

Posted on Wed, 23 Mar 2016

Wed, 23 Mar 2016 Answered on

Mon, 30 May 2016 Last reviewed on

Question : hey , i am suffering from a very guilt situation right now , my penis size is a bit normal & looks like healthy too but , i am not able to erect it , it gets very loose when i try to erect . please suggest me something

Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (29 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
provide more details

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX

Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern. Many of the young men like you suffers from erection problem and luckily most of them have psychological problem.

To guide you further I need more information from your side.

- Are you married?
If yes duration of marriage and since when are you suffering from this problem? How was previous sex life?
If not married, provide details about sex life with girlfriend. Where and in which circumstances you do sex?

- How did problem started? Any specific incidence was there?

- Do you pay more attention to erection while trying for intercourse or masturbation?

- Do you have any physical illness, specifically diabetes or high blood pressure?

- Is there any history of history of smoking or alcohol?

- Is there any difficulty in urinating?

- How is relationship with your partner? Any emotional or social problem is there?

- Is morning erection present?

- Are you able to masturbate? If yes, what is frequency and method?

- When did you do your last successful sex/masturbation?

I will be happy to help further after getting response.

Regards,

Dr.Chintan Solanki

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Naveen Kumar

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (11 minutes later)

Thank you for replying,
I am not married sir neither do i am in any kind of relation ship , my sperm is out before i go for sex , whilr making out i feel liquidity at my penis & when i go for erection i am already done & my penis gets very loose , although i have tried it 3/4 times in past one year , but it was not really successful.

I have been drinking & smoking from past two years , i really dont know when this all started & i even dont have any urine issues , few a times a have morning erections , only thing i feel is i masturbate twice a week in a gap of 3/4 days , & sperm count is also ok

I know it might br very much often problem but i am concerned about it very much & i want some one to help me out & check it by any kind of procedure.

Answered by Dr. Dr. Chintan Solanki (15 hours later)

Brief Answer:
nothing serious, quit smoking, control alcohol

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information and sorry for delayed response.

You have morning erection. You are not involved in sex regularly. You have tried only 3-4 times in one year. It is very common phenomenon. This early ejaculation actually occurs in many young men who are newly involved in sex. It is not premature ejaculation. It can be due to excess semen collection in seminal vesicles or due to performance anxiety. If you practice sex regularly , you would not have such problem.

Sometime due to fatigue, lack of mood, situational problem or environmental changes man can fail in sex. It is normal phenomenon. This is called performance anxiety. After such failure when person actively thinks about erection or success of intercourse during sex/masturbation his mind is likely diverted to such thoughts. For constant erection continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in mind. If mind diverted to concern about erection/ejaculation, ejaculation occurs fast.
However practice makes the man perfect. It will not be always the case, so no need to worry.

Smoking can affect health in many aspects in long run as well as affects penile vessels and cause problem so better to quit the smoking.

Drinking daily also is harmful for body and sex life. Try to avoid daily drinking.

You are able to masturbate and semen is also sufficient that is evidence of your normal body functioning. You can enjoy sex life after marriage without any problem and there is no need of any check-up. For your reassurance I suggest going for serum testosterone level and semen analysis. Normal results of these tests will boost up your confidence.

Take care and feel free to discuss further.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad