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What Causes Low Libido, Pain Around Penis And Lower Abdomen?

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Posted on Fri, 27 Nov 2015
Question: Hi, my age is 29 I am masturbating since past 12 years and it was fine till last few months. yes i have done it in excessive but last few years, i was busy with work so reduced this activity. but from last month when i am masturbating, it start paining in area around penis and lower abdomen. also it feels i am losing sexual desire which previously i used to have... my penis remain small and i am not able to erect it properly
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
no physical problem likely

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX

Thanks for writing to us.

First of all clarification about masturbation.

Masturbation is natural and normal thing. It is done by 95% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity.

To help you further I need more information.

- What was frequency of masturbation in past and what is at present?

- Is there any burning while urinating or pain while passing urine?

- What is size of penis?

- Are you able to achieve ejaculation and orgasm though less erection?

- Do you have any exposure/experience of sex?if yes where a, with whom and how?

- How dis problem start, any specific incidence?

- In which position do you masturbate?

I will be happy to help further after your response.

Dr. Chintan Solanki

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Chintan Solanki (32 minutes later)
Thanks doctor for quick response, well i am writing answers inline

What was frequency of masturbation in past and what is at present?
Once in a day continous till 4-5 days and now twice a week

- Is there any burning while urinating or pain while passing urine?
No

- What is size of penis?
it is just less than size of hand when at extreme point but normally it become small and soft

- Are you able to achieve ejaculation and orgasm though less erection?
No, it is achieved after full erection only

- Do you have any exposure/experience of sex?if yes where a, with whom and how?
Yes with my girlfriend which was in past.

- How dis problem start, any specific incidence?
Well, i will not lie. I went to a body spa and had a body to body spa...but ejaculated in a min. After that I am facing little pain..in past i also felt pain but very rare..


- In which position do you masturbate?

In bed with straight position
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (3 hours later)
Brief Answer:
relaxyour mind, try to use hand for masturbation

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information.

Some psychological component with minor physical problem should be there.

As you ejaculated within a minute you might feel that there is some problem. After that it is possible that you are concentration on erection every time when you attempt masturbation. This is purely performance anxiety.


Sometime due to fatigue, lack of mood, situational problem or environmental changes man can fail in sex. It is normal phenomenon. However when this failure makes person apprehensive about erection, sex life is affected. This is called performance anxiety. After such failure when person actively thinks about erection or success of intercourse during sex/masturbation his mind is likely diverted to such thoughts. For constant erection continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in mind. If mind diverted to concern about erection, erection would not be possible.
While doing masturbation keep yourself relax.

It is possible that when you attempted body to body spa there is some pelvic muscle stretching. This stretching is causing pain when you attempt masturbation in bed with rubbing your penis to bed. In this case you should avoid masturbation for a while (10 days) take pain killer like diclofenac or brufen. And attempt masturbation with hand only and with relax mind without actively thinking about erection.

Size of penis is fine I guess.

Hope you will be fine soon.

Feel free to discuss further.


Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Chintan Solanki (16 hours later)
Doctor, one more thing i want to ask..before getting married.. I want to increase my sexual desire and power. Is there any ayurvedic or any medical course which i can take and increase it.
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
yes ayurvedic and vitamin products are there

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for follow up. Yes there are supplements to improve sexual desire and power.

You can use medicine cum vitamin supplement containing pyridoxal-5-phosphate, mecobalamin and l-methylfolate (trade name tetrafol plus)is very helpful in my patients. You may get this medicine over the counter as it is vitamin product.

I would like to also mention ayurvedic medicine option. Tentex forte is the medicine which is used for sex related problem. No side effects have been reported.

If I were your treating doctor I suggest one tablet of tetrafol plus after meal twice daily for two months and one tablet tentex forte daily at night with a cup of milk for 4 weeks.

There are some natural lifestyle measures which help to improve blood flow to penis and overall sexual performance.

- The most important factor is healthy heart. Blood is pumped in to body by heart. So regular exercise and avoidance of fatty fast food are important measures to prevent heart disease. Regular walking, swimming or running overall improves blood flow to whole body circulation including penis and keep the mind fresh.

- Good healthy food is also an important aspect. Bananas, Garlic, dry fruits(they contains vitamins), eggs, cow milk, cow butter are good food which may help in erectile dysfunction.

- Avoid smoking and alcohol. Low amount of alcohol can help in increasing blood flow but more amount can cause opposite effects. So better to avoid the same.

If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service. In future you can contact me directly on this site if you wish with this link:
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page.

All the best and take care.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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What Causes Low Libido, Pain Around Penis And Lower Abdomen?

Brief Answer: no physical problem likely Detailed Answer: Hello XXXXXXX Thanks for writing to us. First of all clarification about masturbation. Masturbation is natural and normal thing. It is done by 95% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity. To help you further I need more information. - What was frequency of masturbation in past and what is at present? - Is there any burning while urinating or pain while passing urine? - What is size of penis? - Are you able to achieve ejaculation and orgasm though less erection? - Do you have any exposure/experience of sex?if yes where a, with whom and how? - How dis problem start, any specific incidence? - In which position do you masturbate? I will be happy to help further after your response. Dr. Chintan Solanki