What Causes Raised Skin Tag Near Penis Shaft?

Question : Hi I have some thing on the side of my penis shaft I'm not sure what it is there is a hair grown through the center of it, is this a wart or something else? I only have one It's raised from the skin with kind of a flat top, texture is soft all around and fell a little hard from the inside, I am and over weight individual , my penis is pushed in most of the time, it looks skin colored please tell me what this is skin tags, wart, or something else that maybe cancerous or its having to do with me being obese and my hygiene
I the hair growing through the center I had pulled it out

Could this mean I may be diabetic, it runs in my family, and would it cause a Little itch feeling because my penis is pushed in most of the time and maybe because of hygiene? And it's been there for quite some time now ? And I'm posting another picture of white bumps on my upper lip that feel dry can you tell me what it is I been really stressed out
And will it cause some sort of irritation because I shave down the sometime
I also went to an urgent care yesterday because I been really worried, the doctor took a quick look and said it was a plan oh wart that doesn't look like an std, but he also seemed very rushed, and just looked at it real quick, I know your specialty is in skin and said it's a skin tag I'm just very confused and nervous about the whole situation

I uploaded a couple more pictures just to verify it's a skin tag for one last time ,???????