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Hello Doctor, I Am Being Disturbed By Erectile Disfunctioning As

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Posted on Wed, 1 Feb 2023
Question: Hello Doctor,

I am being disturbed by erectile disfunctioning as well as early premature ejaculation. I have tried over the counter sildanafil tablets upto 100 mg. Over a period of time, that has not been very effective.

I seem to have lost interest in Sexual intercourse. This has led to mental disturbances between me and my wife.
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Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (18 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Need more details about your problem

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome to ASKA DOCTOR through HCM.
Thanks for posting your query.
Kindly furnish the following details.
1. Married since how long?
2. How long you are having these problems?
3. Are you a smoker?
4. What about your drinking habits? or other drug habits?
5. Are you having occasional early morning erections?
6. Have you children?
7. Are you a diabetic?'
8. Are you on any regular drugs for any other condition?
9. What was your sexual frequency before you started with these problems? Monthly or weekly how many times?
Afterwards we can discuss the problem. Here in the management of sexual dysfunction, drugs play a minor role only.
Dr S. Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (52 minutes later)
Hello Dr. XXXXXXX

Furnishing the details below;

1) Married since how long? - 3 years.
2. How long you are having these problems? - Close to 1.5 years now
3. Are you a smoker? - Yes
4. What about your drinking habits? or other drug habits? - I am a social drinker. It isnt a addiction
5. Are you having occasional early morning erections? - I do
6. Have you children? - I have a son of 2.5 years
7. Are you a diabetic?' - No
8. Are you on any regular drugs for any other condition? - No
9. What was your sexual frequency before you started with these problems? Monthly or weekly how many times - I was in relationship with my wife for over 4 years before marriage. Our sexual life was very great before marriage and the sexual frequency was like twice a week. My wife still has the same passion for intercourse.

My problem seems to be multifolded as my sexual drive also seems to have reduced added with the erectile problems.

Regards,

Pathanjali Bhat
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Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (3 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Consult a nearby sexual Medicine specialist and get well soon

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Thanks for the details.
It seems that you have psychosexual dysfunction only.
Your age is 39. You cannot expect your sexual function as that during your teen age and early twenties. Moreover sexual function will be better during early years after marriage due to overwhelming excitement when you touched your partner.
Sex is not only in between two thighs, but remains mainly in between two ears - That is in your mind. That is when you get stimulated by your wife's intimacy through touching, seeing, fantasizing and hearing. When this intensity of the stimulation goes down in years ( due to Monotony), you might not get adequate erections. If you feel that I am not sexually adequate, and try to have sex, you can't concentrate on sex or wife's body, instead thinking about your inadequacy and the ways to improve which leads your erectile function poor. This will lead to pressure of performance which worsens further you sexual function.
I cannot prescribe medicine online. You consult a good sexual medicine specialist nearby and cleared your doubts. Along with medicine and guidance you will become normal. Don't expect it to be cured by online discussion.

Get well soon.
Dr S. Murugan

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (56 minutes later)
Thank you Doc.

I will consult someone locally as well.

Regards,

Pathanjali Bhat
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Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
You are most welcome

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Yes, you got the point.
Which is your native place...?. Try to find out those who are well-versed in sexual medicine...as there is no separate specialty in sexual medicine, many physicians cannot handle, all cases in the proper direction. If you approach the right person, it will be solved easily.
All the best.
Dr S. Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (3 hours later)
I am in Bengaluru doctor.

Please do let me know if you have any specific reference of the place for me to get the right medical assistance.

Thank you.
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Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (14 hours later)
Brief Answer:
You are most welcome

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
You can contact: Dr G Sathis XXXXXXX DR RAJANS SEXCARE AND DIABETES CENTRE Chamundeswarinagar 25& 26 11th main, Dasarahalli Main Rd, Nyanapanahalli, A HA, Bengaluru, XXXXXXX 560114
You try to contact him
Other choice: Dr J.B XXXXXXX New Kantharaja, URS Road, Laxmipuram, XXXXXXX
Dr S.Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Saisudha Kotla
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (1 hour later)
Thanks a ton Doc.
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Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (22 hours later)
Brief Answer:
You are most welcome

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome always.
Dr S. Murugan
Note: Consult a Sexual Diseases Specialist online for further follow up- Click here.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Nagamani Ng
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Hello Doctor, I Am Being Disturbed By Erectile Disfunctioning As

Brief Answer: Need more details about your problem Detailed Answer: Hi, Welcome to ASKA DOCTOR through HCM. Thanks for posting your query. Kindly furnish the following details. 1. Married since how long? 2. How long you are having these problems? 3. Are you a smoker? 4. What about your drinking habits? or other drug habits? 5. Are you having occasional early morning erections? 6. Have you children? 7. Are you a diabetic?' 8. Are you on any regular drugs for any other condition? 9. What was your sexual frequency before you started with these problems? Monthly or weekly how many times? Afterwards we can discuss the problem. Here in the management of sexual dysfunction, drugs play a minor role only. Dr S. Murugan