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Boy Friend Does Not Ejaculate During Sex. What To Do?

Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now, in the beginning of our relationship he would ejaculate all the time, then it stopped, no matter how many times we had sex he just wouldn't ejaculate, this affected me a lot and we eventually broke up over it because I had convinced myself that it was me even though I never experienced this with past boyfriends, my then ex boyfriend has sex with a few other girls and he ejaculated with them, this traumatised me! we then got back together and the same thing happened, he wouldn't ejaculate with me, we broke up again and same thing, he had sex with a few other females and ejaculated with them, I can't stand what is going on here, he says he loves me so much and I know that he does, Im not and unattractive girl even though im very down on myself because of our sex life, he says he loves me more than any other girl that has come into his life and I believe him but he musn't be attracted to me if this is happening even though the other girls that he just had "meaningless sex" with as he put it are less attractive than me! I really don't understand what is going on and it has affected me so much that we still aren't back together even though he want's to get back together but how on earth could I when our sex life is like when we are together he doesn't ejaculate but when we are apart and he has "meaningless sex" with other girls... he ejaculates! Please help!
Sat, 29 Jun 2013
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Hello,
I went through your statement.
Your boyfriend who is having sex with multiple partners ejaculating with everybody, but not with you - He was ejaculating with you previously, but not now. He says with others it is meaningless sex - that means with you meaningful sex.
When a girl is ready to accept ejaculation inside her and the boy don't ejaculate inside her (he is not having ejaculation problem as per your statement) - I think the relationship and the "sex" he is having with you is not a worthy sex.
Best wishes
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Boy Friend Does Not Ejaculate During Sex. What To Do?

Hello, I went through your statement. Your boyfriend who is having sex with multiple partners ejaculating with everybody, but not with you - He was ejaculating with you previously, but not now. He says with others it is meaningless sex - that means with you meaningful sex. When a girl is ready to accept ejaculation inside her and the boy don t ejaculate inside her (he is not having ejaculation problem as per your statement) - I think the relationship and the sex he is having with you is not a worthy sex. Best wishes