Dear, you are indeed worried about dyskaryosis.
Every time you are having a bleeding after the intercourse (post-coital bleeding) suggests that you have got some lesion in vagina or
cervix. At the age of 23, the chances of cancer of the cervix are very rare, still cannot be ignored. Your further investigations will make the picture clear.
The pain during sex could be because of huge ovaries on which the pressure of penis causes pain in abdomen. Even any infection of genital organs can give rise to pain. This will have to be sorted out by a Gynaecologist.
If pain during insertion, it can be due to
dryness of vagina because of the condition you are having.
Getting your partner also examined for requirement of any treatment is a good option; however, it does not excuse you from your full investigations, particularly when your smear has shown dyskariosis.
If you are facing too much pain with each intercourse, it is advisable to observe sexual abstinence till your diagnosis and treatment is complete.