I have a small tear at the bottom of my penile meatus. Not red or inflamed, but slightly raised, and occasional pain while urinating. Urinalysis showed no complications. Have been recently tested for Syph and HIV, both negative. I'm not concerned that this is anything other than a physical irritation, but will it heal on its own? Can I speed up the process? I have plans to visit my S.O. in a few days' time - will sex make this worse?