Does A Woman's Hymen Disappears As She Grows Older?

does a woman's hymen breaks as she becomes old. Let me say she is thirty and has never have sexual intercourse? Im am 38 years male virgin who is 1.9m tall. I have a woman i will marry and is thirty virgin. I want to break her hymen the day we make love the first time. Will I find it taking that no other things broke her?