Does Depression And Anxiety Drugs Have An Impact On Libido?

since 9 years i am suffering with erectile dysfunction(psychological dysfunction).while iam at the age of 18 i use to do masturbation daily.one day i did masturbation by aplaying "zandubam" at forehead of my penis.then immediately i felt pain a lot.
at that time i afraid a lot about my penis that here after i cannot get erection forever.(that panic fixed in my mind till today).then day by day my sexual desires decrease gradually.now icannot able to feel that desires.then after i met urologist and he did so many tests on me(such tests are papaverine test,some x rays,ecg,harmones test,colour dopler test).finally he told me that there is no physical problem.problem is only psychological.
in sleeping times i am getting erection with out my knowledge and at the time of masturbation i am getting some what hard.
but now i am unable to belive that i have no physical problem.these thoughts are killing me daily even in dreams and sleeping times also.
i heared that getting treatment to anti depression and anti anxiety makes completely eliminates the libido and sexual desire forever.
now you please advice me """""is my problem curable or not?"""" and """is there any alternative treatment to my problem which does not cause any effect to libido,desire,and to rest of my sexual life""""
""""which treatment makes me perfect man"""""
will you give treatments this kind of problems