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Ejaculation When Nervous. Pain In The Penis After Sex, And Quick Ejaculation. Help

hi doctor ... I am age 30 now .. I always masturbate since the age of 15 two times a week. I noticed that my semen leaking in my underwear since 2 years ago and I some time ejaculated without touch anything when I'm nervous. now I have a family ... and when I'm having sex I would ejaculated quickly and after it I can feel my penis a bit pain . ..can u please help me.
Mon, 29 Apr 2013
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Hi there ~

I understand your concern. It may be that you have been having this problem since you are newly married. It would benefit for you to have good foreplay and afterplay, and not just intercourse. If you need further information you might benefit from seeing a sexologist or reading up more on foreplay. Women like foreplay and rarely do they say that sex is not satisfying. It might help to take your wife with you to a sexologist for therapy or to a psychotherapist for counseling regarding intercourse and also courting, to build the relationship.

Firstly you might need to consult an psychiatrist to find out if you have any difficulties in your libido or have other mental health concerns like depression. Otherwise, you have a very common problem of erectile dysfunction and / or premature ejaculation and it can be easily treated with medications available during this time. The class of medication is called phosphodiesterase 5 inhibitors (PDE5Inh) selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors and it also helps with decreased libido which is a result of depression if you are going through one. I advise you to consult with a qualified psychiatrist who might be able to help in this regard. I hope this helps.

Take care and have a lovely day!
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Ejaculation When Nervous. Pain In The Penis After Sex, And Quick Ejaculation. Help

Hi there ~ I understand your concern. It may be that you have been having this problem since you are newly married. It would benefit for you to have good foreplay and afterplay, and not just intercourse. If you need further information you might benefit from seeing a sexologist or reading up more on foreplay. Women like foreplay and rarely do they say that sex is not satisfying. It might help to take your wife with you to a sexologist for therapy or to a psychotherapist for counseling regarding intercourse and also courting, to build the relationship. Firstly you might need to consult an psychiatrist to find out if you have any difficulties in your libido or have other mental health concerns like depression. Otherwise, you have a very common problem of erectile dysfunction and / or premature ejaculation and it can be easily treated with medications available during this time. The class of medication is called phosphodiesterase 5 inhibitors (PDE5Inh) selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors and it also helps with decreased libido which is a result of depression if you are going through one. I advise you to consult with a qualified psychiatrist who might be able to help in this regard. I hope this helps. Take care and have a lovely day!