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Hi, I am 33 years old man. I got married 5 months ago. I have not been able to have sex with my wife yet,because my penis doesn t erect/get hard properly. It is soft. It erects,but not as much as it should be.I went to many doctors who gave me medicine. I have taken alot of medicine,but didn t help me. Please advise me what to do.
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Since you are not getting proper hard erections probably you are tensed & worried.First please understand that erection is more of a mental problem along with physical one.If you are having issues in family;at your job place;or you are worried or have any problems then you could be tense & cannot concentrate on sex giving rise to weak erections.Secondly i guess you are worried about what your wife will think about you ;if it is so please don't worry marriage is a bonding & sex is just a part of it.If you have any of the above mental issues please talk with your wife & discuss .Also see that if the doctor has told you have some physical problem which requires treatment get treated .You can consult a Urologist/Andrologist for counselling & help.
Take care.
Thanks
Hi, I am 33 years old. I got married 5 months ago. I haven't been able to have sex with my wife yet,becasue my penis doesn't erect completely. You know it is hard to have sex with a virgin girl, because it is the first time, she didn't sex before. So it needs a hard penis to have sex with. We don't have any problems with each other. we are both very happy. Please advise me what to do.
thanks
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Give Me Some Good Medication For Proper Erection
Hello; welcome to HealthcareMagic Since you are not getting proper hard erections probably you are tensed & worried.First please understand that erection is more of a mental problem along with physical one.If you are having issues in family;at your job place;or you are worried or have any problems then you could be tense & cannot concentrate on sex giving rise to weak erections.Secondly i guess you are worried about what your wife will think about you ;if it is so please don t worry marriage is a bonding & sex is just a part of it.If you have any of the above mental issues please talk with your wife & discuss .Also see that if the doctor has told you have some physical problem which requires treatment get treated .You can consult a Urologist/Andrologist for counselling & help. Take care. Thanks