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Have Trouble Maintaining Erection, Premature Ejaculation. Will Marriage Be A Failure?

Dear Doctor Let me start with my personal details am 27 year(14 April 1985), 5 11 , slim built and an average of 85 kgs. I do not smoke but drink occasionally. I am From Uduppi working in Dubai for last seven years. I used to have night falls from the age of 16. From the beginning itself when i masturbate or if i see some dream regarding sex, it wont last for more than 3 seconds and it ejacuates. I thought that may be because of masturbation but even if i do not i have regular night falls like once in a week. I am in love with a girl for past 3 years, she is a malyalee and 1 year younger to me . Whenever i am with her or we meet at some get together parties with our friends we have our private time together secretly but i cant even hug or kiss her for more 1-2 minutes as i have my erection and the ejacuation happens. Before an year in last August we got a chance and stayed together both she and me were having sex for the first time we didnt use condom the whole night was terrific as i couldnt even insert my penis as even before that the ejacuation happend. Now both our families are planning for marriage but i am just delaying t eh same because of this problem i have not discussed this problem with any of my friends or relative as she only knows this and ready to marry as i am. Will my marriage life be a failure? is there any treatment for this Is this Curable? Please recommend me any doctor or hospital in Either Kerala (thrissur prefered) or Uduppi or Mangalore, hoping for your reply
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Hello
Thanks for your query.Based on the fact that you have posted it appears that you have a problem of getting Premature Ejaculation.In majority of cases it is mind related and due to anxiety.It is natural in adolescence to have premature ejaculation due to excitement.This is curable You have to discuss with your fiancé and take her into confidence as her cooperation is important to overcome this problem. Following measures will help to boost up your level of confidence and allay anxiety and there by improve your sexual performance,
1) Practice moderate exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 hour.
2) Take high protein diet rich in vitamins A,C,E,D.fruits and vegetables .
3) Avoid alcohol and smoking .
4)Take some anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday.
Consult qualified Sexologist to learn few techniques to delay ejaculation e.g Start and stop , squeeze techniques.
Please do not worry this is common problem and is curable. .
Dr.Patil
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Have Trouble Maintaining Erection, Premature Ejaculation. Will Marriage Be A Failure?

Hello Thanks for your query.Based on the fact that you have posted it appears that you have a problem of getting Premature Ejaculation.In majority of cases it is mind related and due to anxiety.It is natural in adolescence to have premature ejaculation due to excitement.This is curable You have to discuss with your fiancé and take her into confidence as her cooperation is important to overcome this problem. Following measures will help to boost up your level of confidence and allay anxiety and there by improve your sexual performance, 1) Practice moderate exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 hour. 2) Take high protein diet rich in vitamins A,C,E,D.fruits and vegetables . 3) Avoid alcohol and smoking . 4)Take some anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday. Consult qualified Sexologist to learn few techniques to delay ejaculation e.g Start and stop , squeeze techniques. Please do not worry this is common problem and is curable. . Dr.Patil