How Can I Address Premature Ejaculation And Lack Of Sexual Satisfaction In A Marriage That Is Over A Decade?

Hello. My question is... Every time my husband and I have sex, he gets off so quickly. Like under two minutes sometimes even quicker. He doesn t have any self control, even after being married for 13 years now. We have tried having sex several times a day in hopes that maybe by doing so would eventually make it to where he lasts longer. We have tried foreplay prior to as well. Nothing seems to work. Which has caused it to where I dread the thought of having sex with him because I feel that the sex is just for his own pleasure and never mine because once he s done, the party is over and I am always left not being taken care of. What am I suppose to do? I have sexual needs to that haven t been taken care of for several years.