Hi My Name Is Alana Brunt And My Question Is:

Hi My Name is Alana Brunt and my Question is: Is it inappropriate for my Ex- to be sleeping in my daughter Grace's bed with her. Grace is 5yrs old. My daughter has told me and my mother that her dad sleeps in wobbly shorts (boxers) and that is all Grace sleeps in her panties and that's all in the same bed together. I find this to be very, very inappropriate and he even sleeps with grace when his girlfriend stays over. I just need a professional's opinion. I have asked my ex Jamie if this is true and he (Jamie) has confirmed yes these facts are true. He says there is nothing wrong with this and to mind my own business. And when I asked my daughter on a recent call while she was at her dad Jamie's home I asked Grace if her daddy was still sleeping with her and Grace Replied " Yes Mommy" Then I asked what does your Dad (Jamie) wear in bed with you? Grace Replied " Just wobbly shorts and I sleep in my panties and that's it." Then I heard Jamie say in the back ground no tell your mom you sleep with pajama's. To which my daughter Grace replied " But I don't dad I sleep in my panties and you in wobbly shorts all night all the time.
Am I wrong that this is inappropriate behavior for a 32-34 yr old man (Jamie) to be sleeping like that with Our Daughter Grace who is almost 6yrs old.