My friend just admitted that he had an abusive childhood. That his father beat him when he was a child. He also admitted that he is hearing voices, at the age of 12, and he named it Nova. He says that this Nova is telling him what decisions to make, what things to avoid. And he aslo said that this nova flashes trauma to him everytime. Now, i want to commit to him but he doesn t want us to be together, he said that he dont desrerve me. He also had an OCD before. How can I help him?