I m 76 and have the flu. Bossy lady says no, go to hospital. I feel an aura of flu over myself (twice), hurt all over, chills/fever at times, bones hurt worse, chest hurts some. hunger fluctuates, HAD to some chores so don t think I m that bad off. Problem: Neighbor lady says it came on gradually but flu hits one suddenly. I talked to her on the phone she says I would be laying flat in bed and could not talk. She thinks I have something worse and not going to hospital might make it worse. Could you tell her who s right and why? Or just let me know yes or no? Thank you for being there to answer everyone s questions. Thank you for studying so hard to become a doctor.