How Can Bowel Incontinence Along With IBS Be Treated?

I am 33 m/170cm/71 Kg in Weight. My Problem is related to Bowel Moments for the past many Years. I goes to Washroom twice at least in the Morning. And the Urge is too much after Sleep that it sometimes feel difficult to reach the Washroom. Even if I wake up at 4 AM then also the same urge. The bowel is like Watery and it flows very soon or you can say Diarrhoea. Also there is a Sound like Farting in the Loo. Sometime the bowel is also Very Irritable .In addition to this the urge to bowel pass Is very random ie at one time I feel normal and then Suddenly after 5 min required to go to Loo. So, I think that my Problem is Bowel Incontinence with IBS. I tried almost lot many Ayurveda and Homeopath medicine but no Advantage. Due to this I am afraid of going to go to Public Places and I feel nervous . Even after Lunch or dinner i go to Loo. The main concern is the Urge and sometimes unable to control the motion. Diet: Low Salt, Pure Veg Diet, Lots of Nuts, Fruits ,Low in Spices food I take.