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How Can Depression And Rejection Be Dealt With After A Failed Relationship?
Hi,Am girl.25 years old.three months before I ve resigned my job.bcoz of some issue.tat is, on my working place my manager asking me about relationship until my marriage.he is married man and have a kid, two years we know both.he always used to flirts me stares me all time.i too impressed his actions.then I said ok for everything..then he said ,he liked me only for sex nothing else.i said ok for that too.then he told me, I don t like u..let s stop this, u r not attractive so on.but he liked my kiss very much.I asked reason for rejecting me.he said. U have boyfrd its my pblm.i can t stop this by one time.like so on...after time he used to tell..u r not looking good.I really get confused.why he s behaving like psycho.am depressed.pls help me to come out from this..i really don t want him.but my mind always thinking about why he rejected me.Pls advice me..
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Fri, 17 Mar 2017
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hi,
Being a Girl, I can understand the situation. But I would like to say that, its good that he stopped everything from his side. You will also agree that such relationships never lasts long neither based on trust. Depend on lust only. Such persons should not be trusted or should not be expected to behave properly. He might have got some other pray.
Its a sincere advice that never indulge in such type of relationships.. now concentrating on rejection part- It seems that he had not rejected you because you are not attractive but either he was such a person that he needs different different girls to satisfy his sexual desire so he got fade up with you or he might have got some other new girl.
So, the question is why to worry about breaking up with a temporary relationship. i accept it hurts .. but be calm n cool and let it go..
If needed specialist psychiatrist help can be taken. Its advisable that please go n see the specialist.. needed antidepressant medicines for few months..
Rest up to you.. please dont repeat the past. try to engage yourself in mature and secure relationships.. gives good meaning ti life..
All the best..
Being a Girl, I can understand the situation. But I would like to say that, its good that he stopped everything from his side. You will also agree that such relationships never lasts long neither based on trust. Depend on lust only. Such persons should not be trusted or should not be expected to behave properly. He might have got some other pray.
Its a sincere advice that never indulge in such type of relationships.. now concentrating on rejection part- It seems that he had not rejected you because you are not attractive but either he was such a person that he needs different different girls to satisfy his sexual desire so he got fade up with you or he might have got some other new girl.
So, the question is why to worry about breaking up with a temporary relationship. i accept it hurts .. but be calm n cool and let it go..
If needed specialist psychiatrist help can be taken. Its advisable that please go n see the specialist.. needed antidepressant medicines for few months..
Rest up to you.. please dont repeat the past. try to engage yourself in mature and secure relationships.. gives good meaning ti life..
All the best..
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Hi,
Its a good thing that he stopped from his side without any further harm. The relationship he was having with you is a type of insecure , without having trust, just to fulfill the sexual desire. Such relationships never lasts long. Because such persons always try newer and newer girls to quench the thirst. they never stay long in a single relationship. There are high chances that he might have found some one else, so he lost interest in you.
Dont worry about his rejection cause this rejection is not for you.. probably he keeps behaving in a similar way always.
Its advisable that avoid indulging in such relationships.. and if such things occur .. never ever get attached emotionally..
If you are feeling bit depressed then antidepressants can be started for few months.. See a nearby specialist (Psychiatrist) if needed..
Its a good thing that he stopped from his side without any further harm. The relationship he was having with you is a type of insecure , without having trust, just to fulfill the sexual desire. Such relationships never lasts long. Because such persons always try newer and newer girls to quench the thirst. they never stay long in a single relationship. There are high chances that he might have found some one else, so he lost interest in you.
Dont worry about his rejection cause this rejection is not for you.. probably he keeps behaving in a similar way always.
Its advisable that avoid indulging in such relationships.. and if such things occur .. never ever get attached emotionally..
If you are feeling bit depressed then antidepressants can be started for few months.. See a nearby specialist (Psychiatrist) if needed..
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