How Can High BP Levels With Relationship Fractures Be Mended?

This is Anusree Bhowmick from Sharjah, I have recently been married and moved to UAE last month from Kolkata.I have been married for over 4 months to my boyfriend of 3 years. The reason why I am writing to you is that after I am having a lot of problems with my husband which is creating a lot of mental pressure. We ve mainly had a long distance relationship after our college lives and he was here in Dubai with his friends working for the past 2 years . But over these years , he has seen a lot of pressure , from his family regarding finances and work related pressure as well, which i think he is not handling very well which is why his blood pressure level is also very high.As a result of this he has a very short and bad temper which is ruining the relationship , no matter how hard i try to keep my cool I sometimes tend to lose it and then he starts using me as a punching bag and blamimg for all his problems. I love him and care for him but i can t let this happen to me, he never listens if any health advise is given. Kindly help. my email id is: YYYY@YYYY