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How Can I Get My Virginity Back?

im a 14 year old girl and i lost my virginity and i want it back? hi. last night i snuck a guy into my house and we pretty much did everything exceot sex. he wanted to have it tho. i was really physically and mentaly unprepared for this. i said ok we will try sticking it in a few times but thats it. number one does that even count as loosing ur virginity? im pretty sure it does but im kinda hoping its not... and number 2, i know u can t physically get ur virginity back, but spiritually, what can i do? i want to be clean again in gods eyes because i am a strong christian. what can i do spiritually to become a virgin again? please help me...
posted on Mon, 21 Dec 2009
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It may be gone, but 99.9% of the world population lose their virginity, so you're not alone. The average age is about 16 or 17 so you may be a little bit young, but you can still be a mental virgin. As long as to you didn't truly feel the soaring and connection to this guy you will feel to a lover, you have not mentally experienced sex. I,m not saying go out and have relations with every one, but your virginity is not completely lost.
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Once it's gone, it's gone- both physically and mentally. If he inserted his penis into your vagina- even if only for seconds then you are no longer a virgin. Your lack of maturity in this matter demonstrates the reason why you should not be having sex at your age.
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I'm not like an 'anti-christian' or anything but don't rally 'strong christians' wait until they're married before they have sex? Never mind being 2 years under age.. >.
Seems like You can't return to being clean in 'God's eyes, you made your choice.
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How Can I Get My Virginity Back?

It may be gone, but 99.9% of the world population lose their virginity, so you re not alone. The average age is about 16 or 17 so you may be a little bit young, but you can still be a mental virgin. As long as to you didn t truly feel the soaring and connection to this guy you will feel to a lover, you have not mentally experienced sex. I,m not saying go out and have relations with every one, but your virginity is not completely lost.