How Can Low Libido Be Treated?

I used to have a very strong sexual drive before during and after my period and I admit my partner and I had relations because I would get enormous sexual tension release and it helped with PMS and it relaxed me. I could do it with him a lot during that time and we did. I no longer have my period and since I have lost that sexual energy. I was wonder if I can take hormones? The nurse told me to use lube and it does not work. My vagina is not so tight and one time we were going to have relations and he could hardly get it in and it hurt. He took it out. It was so tight. I miss those days when my sex life was not like this and I loved when he go down deep inside me and I d have cervical orgasms which were really deeply satisfying as his tip touched my cervix during an orgasm and it was heaven. I have no sexual release and I m not an old old woman. I miss those days when I had a strong sex drive and satisfaction and now it s like nothing. Thank you,