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How Can Mood Swings And Possessive Behaviour Be Managed?

Sir, I am in a relationship with a girl. I really get possessive when she starts talking about boys. I am feeling insecure and I don t want her to do anything without me. I expect her to be with me all the time. But that doesnt actually happen. She replies late to my messages though she is online all the time. I am so over protective. I couldnt even tolerate some thing that is bothering her. But she doesnt even take this to heart. That even hurts me more. I cant get her over my mind. My mood gets upset whenever she says something other than me. Why does this happen to me?!
posted on Wed, 27 Sep 2017
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Psychiatrist,  's  Response
Hello,

In my opinion, it is natural to be so, but it is not fruitful for the relationship. Imagine the girl is doing this to you. So give space. Trust completely then it would be very good for your relationship.



Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Regards,
Dr. Gayathri
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Psychologist,  Dr. Psychologist K. V. Anand's  Response
Dear user
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. All these are happening just because you are thinking beyond reality and you are being possessive. I suggest relationship counseling for you.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How Can Mood Swings And Possessive Behaviour Be Managed?

Hello, In my opinion, it is natural to be so, but it is not fruitful for the relationship. Imagine the girl is doing this to you. So give space. Trust completely then it would be very good for your relationship. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Gayathri