I am a student. My brother in law proposed me in 9th class. Now I am a final year btech student. I accepted his love. After 9th we didn t meet for 2 years. When I was in engineering first year I called him and told that I was studying in hyd college. Later we talked for hours few months. Then he started to avoid me. He talks with other girls at nights. Even if I call at the same time when he talks to other girl, he ll not pick my call. So I used to fight n ask him with whom he is talking at late night but never told me the answer. I never did anything less to him. He got everything at me. Even in sex I satisfied him. But last he told that he wants breakup because I am a characterless bitch he told. I may have slept with many he told. Our relation is a distance relationship. But truth I am telling , I don t have any affair with anyone other than this person . He s not listening in turn he is blaming me for the things I didn t even do. The only thing I asked him to stop talking with other girls bcoz he is a business man and lives in a village and if he talks like hours I felt like what is he doing talking all nights. So I forced him not to talk with other girls but he never stopped talking instead he stopped talking with me. How can a boy who is in relation with me can talk to other girl when I am with him. I ll give you an example One day at night after 1 month I called him, he answered my call then some customer came to his office so he cut the call. Later he called me at 9:34 pm, he talked on phone till 2 minutes and after that call has been cut. I again called him by that time he is talking to some other. I called on he didn t answer my call but kept on talking to other girl till 12 am in the midnight. Other example: When he gets mood , he comes to me talking to me very lovely. When his sexual want is satisfied and fullfilled, he ll behave same fighting arguing with me. Finally he told me that he wants me only for sex and will never marry. As I have been loving him for 6 years iam unable to forget him. I know he is not good but my heart is always saying to call him. What can I do please suggest. I am in depression. By his words iam feeling like wrong is mine even I didn t do any wrong. How can I change his mind ? How can I make him know my value? I loved him very much with honesty but he told that I was a characterless bitch