Hi Dr. David Bienenfeld ,its regarding my son. he is very ambitious and money oriented and desire to live in a very hifi life.we belong from middle class family, but it was our mistake that we gave him everything he wanted in life.he studied engineering ,during is college days he was a hero figure and all the girls liked him. he even had relationship wit a gal there.but still he flirted with many. at the end of the college year he broke up with her. after that he planned to move to canada to pursue his higher studies.even though we were finacially tight, we mangged to sent him .in that time he came into other relationship..when he proposed her she told her to tell this at home.my son told us about her and even to her parents. we liked this relationship..they were in long distance relationship for 4 yrs.after completing his studies he wanted to work there and settle down in canada.but he didnt get any job there for 1 yr....he went to kind of depression..at that time he went to strip clubs n al...but later on he back to india he got job here...but he dont want to continue his relationship with her...he likes her a lot...but he doesnt recognizes it...he telling us and her that she is very good gal...and he doesnt deserve her...she loves her alot and wants him back....but he punishing himself by doing all this...he doesnt recognizes what he is doing..his sleeping habits...he doesnt remember what he says and all.plz help us out what should we do.how can we reslove it?