HI, I have a friend who is 61 who is struggling after a loss of her job...she almost seems like she s had a mental breakdown...not showering, no interest in doing anything, very sensitive and irritable to her husband. She has lost 20 lbs. over the last 4 months, no appetite, bizarre behavior. We are trying to get her to a dr. , but she doesn t want to go, hasn t been in years....any suggestions?