I am wondering if a psychiatrist can help at all with my problem. I had a great high paying job with a great company for 32 years. But for the last year and a half I was in a position where I was extremely stressed. It got worse and I felt like I couldn't even do the job I was so stressed. I got to the point that I convinced myself that I wanted to retire in order to get out of this job because I was so stressed. I could financially do it, so I retired a month ago, but have been a mental mess ever since. I realize now that I did not want to retire, I only did to get out of a job I hated. I am only 55 and cannot believe I retired. I feel my life is over. I can’t think of anything else but what happened, and I spend each day doing nothing but mulling it over in my mind. I have lost all desire to do anything I used to like to do. I am not depressed. I just can’t believe what happened. I can’t even think straight anymore to make simple decisions, and am no longer functioning in a normal life. I have lost all confidence in myself, and feel hopeless. I went to my GP and he put me on Mirtazapine for 'anxiety'. It is not doing a thing. I don't think medication is going to help, because I don't have depression. I have also talked to a counselor several times, and he says I just have a hard time coping with major life changes, and I will adjust. A friend of mine is telling me I need to see a psychiatrist. Will a psychiatrist to anything more that what my GP and counselor have done?