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How Do I Get Back In Favour With My Boyfriend?
there was so much chemistry with this one guy, we used to always go dancing and the dancing was like having sex. He tried to invite me over several times, but i actually just wanted to get to know him better. Last time dancing he said after come on we ll listen to better music and have a few drinks at home I believed him and went. I was not prepared to have sex, hadnt shaved etc. So anyway there was no drinks no music and we went straight to business. i wanted to actually just kiss and when he undressed me i said i dont want you to hate me but we have to stop here. He was still very pushy and made me undress. After all that he couldnt stay erect for long , he kept putting on condoms thinking they broke, even though they didnt. And then he thought i was a virgin even though i wasnt because it was a bit hard to get in and because there was some blood on the sheets, probably cause he was so rough. I faked that I came and he doubted it, i assured i did, and when i said but you didnt, he said dont worry about me and went off to take a shower and was cold after. Did I do anything wrong. I know he s a very experienced 34 year old. Was i a dissapointment to him in bed after all the tension build up? Will I get a second chance?
Thu, 26 Jun 2014
You must learn to handle small issues first before getting into a physical relation
n with your boyfriend. There is always lots of apprehension when you go first time for a intimate relation, and the outcome may not be what you both expect from each other. If your boyfriend is a mature person he must understand the issues related to you. Well give him some time and observe, wait for his response, don't panic, be tactful to handle the situation, you may also involve a confidential friend into the matter if it bothers you much but best is to be your own judge.................... tc care
n with your boyfriend. There is always lots of apprehension when you go first time for a intimate relation, and the outcome may not be what you both expect from each other. If your boyfriend is a mature person he must understand the issues related to you. Well give him some time and observe, wait for his response, don't panic, be tactful to handle the situation, you may also involve a confidential friend into the matter if it bothers you much but best is to be your own judge.................... tc care
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what you did is not at all a problem
He will come to you again. Donot worry and think much about the incident. Be normal and calm.
Thank you
what you did is not at all a problem
He will come to you again. Donot worry and think much about the incident. Be normal and calm.
Thank you
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