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How Do I Stop My Grandkids From Getting Emotionally Abused?

Hi, I have a question about my Grandchildren. Our son is their Dad and he remarried to a very evil woman, and he is making the kids write things about there mother, and I think this is emotional abuse. I do not want them doing this to my G kids, it isn t fair to them, I have Multiple Sclerosis and am on Disability and my Spouse got hurt in our back yard and is now on Disability also so we can t afford an Attorney or I would definitely get one. Our G kids are 11 and 7 and the oldest child wants to live here and again I can t afford an attorney. The kids do not even want to go see there Dad ,he told them to go to there room and don t come out even to go to the bathroom he told them to piss on themselves, what can we do, this is so wrong
Thu, 27 Mar 2014
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Your concern sounds genuine, and I will try to respond as genuinely as possible. Your concern for your grand children is indeed valid considering the two examples you gave of the atrocities the young ones have to face

From your query, it seemed to me that the kids do not want to stay with their parents either. So I dont think they would mind moving out.

I can think of two possibilities-

1. Have them visit your place as much and as frequently as possible. they may feel some respite from the regular oddities that they have to face.

2. Have your children reported, so that the grand children can be taken away from them and provided a foster home where they may lead a better life. of course they can always visit you. If they get a decent family, they are surely not going to stop them from meeting you.

Besides, I think the welfare of the kids comes before the priority that their visits to you may become infrequent
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How Do I Stop My Grandkids From Getting Emotionally Abused?

Your concern sounds genuine, and I will try to respond as genuinely as possible. Your concern for your grand children is indeed valid considering the two examples you gave of the atrocities the young ones have to face From your query, it seemed to me that the kids do not want to stay with their parents either. So I dont think they would mind moving out. I can think of two possibilities- 1. Have them visit your place as much and as frequently as possible. they may feel some respite from the regular oddities that they have to face. 2. Have your children reported, so that the grand children can be taken away from them and provided a foster home where they may lead a better life. of course they can always visit you. If they get a decent family, they are surely not going to stop them from meeting you. Besides, I think the welfare of the kids comes before the priority that their visits to you may become infrequent