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How To Concentrate On Studies?

My son is studying MBA in a University in Andhra Pradesh. Since he was of 15 years of age, he was easy going and not concentrating on his studies and spending most of his time with friends. Chating with friends, phone calls with his friends.... He has become so lazy that he is dreaming like he will complete the studies even if he do not read the books. He was well up to his sixth standard. He has completed WWW.WWWW.WW degree after +2. He has tried to pursue Chartered Accountant course. He has completed Foundation level and one group out of two in Inter level of C A course. Because of his not devotion of adequate time and effort only he could not fare well in the C A. After observing his performance I have suggested him to step out of C A course and do MBA. Now too his attitude has not transformed and not paying much effort to excel in his class.
More over he creatiing mess in home if we suggest him any action like to do meditation, concentration practice, reading etc.,
his mother is sick of his attitude. He donot have any habits like cigarette smoking, or drugs or any of its kind.
During his early education years he was very clever that he can reproduce even on hearing once in his class. Because of friendships during 7th standard onwards he has become so easy going and lazy and not paying serious attention to his studies or any aspect.
He is having more ambitious dreams towards his career but he is not paying concentration and patient reading, etc.,
Please suggest me a remedial measure on this issue.
M. L P. Rao,
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Wed, 22 Oct 2014
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Attitude changes from motivation and never from advise. Motivation comes from so many sources, but the most prominent source is his own desire. If he is not desiring about his future, no one can help him other than a trained motivation trainer of a trained psychologist. Please do not try to advise your son for the time being, because you are doing it for years, and there is no change in his attitude. Let the motivation part done by experts. Consult a psychologist.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed techniques.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How To Concentrate On Studies?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Attitude changes from motivation and never from advise. Motivation comes from so many sources, but the most prominent source is his own desire. If he is not desiring about his future, no one can help him other than a trained motivation trainer of a trained psychologist. Please do not try to advise your son for the time being, because you are doing it for years, and there is no change in his attitude. Let the motivation part done by experts. Consult a psychologist. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.