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How To Confront A Cheating Boyfriend?

Me and My boyfriend have been together for 2 years. Up until last january he has cheated on me. And i think its happening again. We went a week without seeeing each other and when we saw each other he had Scratches on his back, and recently he got a message from a girl he used to cheat on me with saying Dont worry, He wont fight for me. I dont understad why everytime something happens I always forgive him and go back to him. Its tearing me apart and I m not sure how to confront him and when I do confront him, he gets mad and I m the one apologizing.
Mon, 2 Jun 2014
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Hi,

I read your query in detail and understand your distress regarding your current situation. Any relationship's happiness and success is build on trust and with that, it is very difficult to continue.

Since you are having so much trouble with your emotions, I would suggest you to directly talk to your boy friend regarding this. Just be straight and explain about how you are feeling and why are you feeling the same. Be assertive without being aggressive. You will have to be strong to face whatever comes next and be prepared for the worst.

Whatever happens, be prepared to either move on or to continue the relationship with utmost trust. Hope you will be able to get over your distress soon. Best wishes.
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How To Confront A Cheating Boyfriend?

Hi, I read your query in detail and understand your distress regarding your current situation. Any relationship s happiness and success is build on trust and with that, it is very difficult to continue. Since you are having so much trouble with your emotions, I would suggest you to directly talk to your boy friend regarding this. Just be straight and explain about how you are feeling and why are you feeling the same. Be assertive without being aggressive. You will have to be strong to face whatever comes next and be prepared for the worst. Whatever happens, be prepared to either move on or to continue the relationship with utmost trust. Hope you will be able to get over your distress soon. Best wishes.