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How To Counsel A Girl Having Affair?

hello!! sir.,i belong to a middle calss family and have may responsibilities and burdun on my shoulders beacause there's alwyas a conflict in me and my husband.We even had a divorce for over 3 years but we united again just in sake of not spoiling the future of our daughter. but she never understands this and take it easy just beacuse she was treated like angel even in worst circumstances.she is average in studies,in 9th class,and having an affair since she was in 7th with a boy.From their messages i have read i m sure that they had a kiss even.Though we had many discussions,warnings and even arguement of the two families but they are not ready to leave each other. i have made her understand in every way i could. Moreover,i m feeling that she is getting down in her studies.kindly help me please what should i do for the affair of my daughter and help her to pay sincerity towards her study and a good future?
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. At this juncture you cannot counsel her out of it. Mainly becauae you had tried everything you can. You can take her to a psychological counselor. But as you had tried almost everything, counselor has to find new techniques. He will find it, but the results totally depends on how you treated your child. Let us hope for the best.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How To Counsel A Girl Having Affair?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. At this juncture you cannot counsel her out of it. Mainly becauae you had tried everything you can. You can take her to a psychological counselor. But as you had tried almost everything, counselor has to find new techniques. He will find it, but the results totally depends on how you treated your child. Let us hope for the best. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.