Our 33 year old daughter refuses to be in our family picture for our 40th wedding anniversary. I asked her why; I just had a baby (back in April)!! You can t even tell she s had a baby. She is thin and svelte. The rest of us ladies are overweight and don t understand what her problem is. The other thing, she is going back to school and I told her I would pick her children up after school on Thursday s so she can attend college. It is 1 hr. one way. She is a single mom and we have helped her out numerous times. I feel like telling her if she can t be in the picture then I m not helping with the children!! She is a self-centered young woman. What is the right thing to do in this case? I thought this was a free service. I don t give my credit card number on-line so I m sorry you will not be able to help me. Can you help me without payment since it is a free service?