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My name is rohan I m 21 .single. weight is 55 kg and height is 5'10...never had a sexual vaginal or oral inter course....masturbating from 1year and 9 months.earlier I first saw porn when Internet broadband connection was taken at my home on jan 2012 aftr few mnths I first masturbated.i was so amused by the feeling of orgasm that I started doing it daily.sometimes more than 1 time.while watching porn.i got porn addicted. and during watching porn I use to masturbate.times went on.after 3 months the frequency decreased.2 times a week.in may.but during October starting.i got a huge depression in my personal life.so when ever I feel depress I masturbate to feel relief this continued till october this year when I realised its no longer that mental pleasure I used to have its just all physically rubbing of penis to ejaculate.no orgasm.as I got used to it I keep doing it. not enjoying the act anymore.earlier I used to HAVE ORGASM EVERY TIME I EJACULATE ......not having pleasure of orgasm anymore.very worried. plz help.will I be able to enjoy a normal sex life with partner.i read its called. Sexual anhedonia. but plz note I just use to ejaculate only once.even if its still erect.because earlier I used to have orgasm every single time I ejaculate.i also having wet dreams from past fee months.in the begining of my porn masturbation stage in 2012 jan I sometimes used to rub nd stroke my penis hard and give vigorous strokes...plzzz I m very depressed by the thought that I destroyed my sex life because of bad habbit of over and vigorous masturbation. THINGS CAUSE ME DEPRESSION AND MASTURBATION BECAME A WAY TO ESCAPE.I WAS NOT HAVING ANY PRIOR INFORMATION ABOUT IT.ITS TECHNIQUE AND SIDE EFFECT.MY QUESTIONS ARE IS MASTURBATION PRACTISED BY HARD STROKING OF PENIS HARMFUL.MY PENIS FORESKIN BECAME DULL IS IT CURABLE.? HOW I CAN END MY SEXANHEDONIA? WILL I EVER HAVE A NORMAL SEX ? LIFE WITH PARTNER.? had I made a permanent damage.? how can i make bring my penis sensation back? yesterday i watched porn but my penis not having proper erecting and porn was like another video of songs or movie.just a very little arousal.PLZ I M VERY WORRIED SIR..HELP ME PLZ.plz give ur persnal email id I feel suicidal coz of earlier drpression and now this sex thing.also tell me cn masturbation cause me weak body.? can I recover my sex power lost in masturbation and damage caused to penis.
Hi Rohan, I read you problem in detail and can understand what you are going through. Lets start with some basic facts. Masturbation is a normal physiological process and masturbating on a daily basis doesn't lead to any physical, mental or sexual weakness. However, from what you have mentioned, it seems that you are suffering from depression and that is leading to you having a lot of negative thoughts. Your feeling of sexual anhedonia can very well be part of depression. Your situation is highly amenable to treatment. What i would recommend is that you should immediately consult a local psychiatrist. You need to be started on some anti-depressants together with regular supportive therapy sessions. Wishing you speedy recovery. Best wishes.
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How To Get Rid Of Sexual Anhedonia?
Hi Rohan, I read you problem in detail and can understand what you are going through. Lets start with some basic facts. Masturbation is a normal physiological process and masturbating on a daily basis doesn t lead to any physical, mental or sexual weakness. However, from what you have mentioned, it seems that you are suffering from depression and that is leading to you having a lot of negative thoughts. Your feeling of sexual anhedonia can very well be part of depression. Your situation is highly amenable to treatment. What i would recommend is that you should immediately consult a local psychiatrist. You need to be started on some anti-depressants together with regular supportive therapy sessions. Wishing you speedy recovery. Best wishes.