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How To Overcome Stress Due To Financial Problems?

I am 25 yr old female. me and my husband staying in dubai now, ours was a love marriage his parents has accepted us. now we r suffering from financial problem. i am searching 4 a job here. i dont knw what happening to me now a days , everyday am fighting with my husband without reason. he loves me so much and taking care of me but i am feeling like am alone no one is there to love me. i know he is having lot of tension because of financial probl but i dont know i am also giving tension to him. inside mind i can understand everything and me too love him so much but i cant show it to him..he used to tel i changed a lot and i am not loving him like before. before marriage wat all he used to say i will hear and do accordiingly but now i wil not do anything wat he want me too do.i chaged my religion also after marriage i leaned everything related to the religion. but then also i feel like hiis family and himself forcing me to it , i really dnt like forcing me..i always used to pray in mind and i feel like me and god having gud relation he used to hear all my prayers and my wish but now am feeling so sad of being foring for prayers.now i dnt have gud days because of me itself , i feel like am becoming mad pls help me i want a gud friendship with physhiatric doctor so that i can share my problems.
Mon, 29 Dec 2014
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Hi,
Don't worry. This is the word you would like to here from someone who is close to u and understands you. You are getting all these feelings because u left ur family and religion for ur husband. Now u r feeling lonely. But as u said ur husband loves u a lot and cares a lot. So try to reciprocate it to him. Before marriage u both would have tried to impress each other. Now try doing the same. Instead of thinking u r lonely, think abt him and abt doing small things and surprises which he likes. Try to rekindle the love between u. God is one only religions are different which are created by us. So don't think God is punishing you. It's nothing like dat. You left ur family but now if you are not happy with ur husband dey ll be suffering more dan you. So at least be happy for their sake and be an ideal couple. Few days and your family ll understand u and come to you. Till den be strong and happy. Try talking with any fren wid positive views abt ur problems. All the best.
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How To Overcome Stress Due To Financial Problems?

Hi, Don t worry. This is the word you would like to here from someone who is close to u and understands you. You are getting all these feelings because u left ur family and religion for ur husband. Now u r feeling lonely. But as u said ur husband loves u a lot and cares a lot. So try to reciprocate it to him. Before marriage u both would have tried to impress each other. Now try doing the same. Instead of thinking u r lonely, think abt him and abt doing small things and surprises which he likes. Try to rekindle the love between u. God is one only religions are different which are created by us. So don t think God is punishing you. It s nothing like dat. You left ur family but now if you are not happy with ur husband dey ll be suffering more dan you. So at least be happy for their sake and be an ideal couple. Few days and your family ll understand u and come to you. Till den be strong and happy. Try talking with any fren wid positive views abt ur problems. All the best.