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How To Overcome The Erection Problem?

Hi Doctor, Mine is an entirely different problem...pls help iam married, now 1 month. Till now i didn t had sex with my wife, bcs i am not having a feeling to her. when she is not with me, i will masturbate thinking of her. but when she s is nearby my penis is not erect and due to this iam having a lot of tension. pls help me.. thanks, Subhash
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Hi sir,
Welcome to health care magic,

I can certainly understand your concern about your sexual performance, it seems that your problem could be probably due to lack of understanding between you couple.

you have mentioned that you are not having a feeling towards her, that it may happen to any newly married couple this could be because of apprehension towards sex. I would suggest you to share your mutual sexual fantasies and build your relationship first, this would certainly help in maintaining chemistry between you and spend more time with foreplay, which stimulates the production of Nitric Oxide ie NO, and helps in penile erection.

so be relaxed,avoid any tension and stress, which have negative impact on erection and enjoy your sexual life

post your further questions if any
Thank you.

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How To Overcome The Erection Problem?

Hi sir, Welcome to health care magic, I can certainly understand your concern about your sexual performance, it seems that your problem could be probably due to lack of understanding between you couple. you have mentioned that you are not having a feeling towards her, that it may happen to any newly married couple this could be because of apprehension towards sex. I would suggest you to share your mutual sexual fantasies and build your relationship first, this would certainly help in maintaining chemistry between you and spend more time with foreplay, which stimulates the production of Nitric Oxide ie NO, and helps in penile erection. so be relaxed,avoid any tension and stress, which have negative impact on erection and enjoy your sexual life post your further questions if any Thank you.