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How To Overcome The Frustration In A Relation?
Dear Ma am My name is rozario i am 21 years old i am relationship with a person who 34 year old we have dating each other since 3 years we have done intercourse en number of time we were having very healthy life ... i am from delhi basically he lives in hyderabad i have come to hyderabad last year n we stayed together with him for 2 months we been very close , bt in the months Aug 2010 in hyd i started working he got doubt that i am dating some one ..... it has impact my love life badly now the situation is i feel he avoids me... he dont talk much to me ... till 3 months we used to have intercorse every week ... bt now he avoids me when i ask him to do ... he says i have lot of work ... but some how i feel he avoids ... i want you to advise me .. i tried asking him what happened ... he have no answer for my question... i get frustrated .... of all these which leads us to fight ..... plase advise me me i ll be glad .... and also tell is this happening because we have 13 yrs age gap pls advise br
Mon, 30 Jun 2014
Hello. Thanks for posting your query.
This is Dr. Jaydeep and i am glad to be able to assist you.
Problems in relationships are very common. Nowadays the divorce rates have gone up, and very few couple have the patience to work it out, rather than breaking up.
Age doesn't really matter. He can be 13 years elder to you, but if he loves you that should not be a problem. You got to decide if he is the right person for you. When couples start dating, everything seems like a fairy tale for the first few months. But once you settle down, you actually realize if this relationship is worth it. He might be having his doubts and insecurities, so i will advise you sit with him and be frank and tell him what's bothering you. If he loves you, he will understand. There are certain individuals who will only want all the attention. He can be like that and he felt bad when you started your new job. If he's that clingy, you are better off without him. So have a frank discussion, and if it still doesn't work out, be strong and you have to let him go. You should be with someone who understands you and doesn't cause this much stress.
Hope this helps.
Thanks
This is Dr. Jaydeep and i am glad to be able to assist you.
Problems in relationships are very common. Nowadays the divorce rates have gone up, and very few couple have the patience to work it out, rather than breaking up.
Age doesn't really matter. He can be 13 years elder to you, but if he loves you that should not be a problem. You got to decide if he is the right person for you. When couples start dating, everything seems like a fairy tale for the first few months. But once you settle down, you actually realize if this relationship is worth it. He might be having his doubts and insecurities, so i will advise you sit with him and be frank and tell him what's bothering you. If he loves you, he will understand. There are certain individuals who will only want all the attention. He can be like that and he felt bad when you started your new job. If he's that clingy, you are better off without him. So have a frank discussion, and if it still doesn't work out, be strong and you have to let him go. You should be with someone who understands you and doesn't cause this much stress.
Hope this helps.
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