Hi. I'm writing this all the way from South Africa. I'm an emotionally bruised being and it all started when my current boyfriend and I started having sex back in January. I told him was a virgin (which I was) and that I'm not ready. He persuaded me for weeks until I gave in. After my first time having sex with him he got angry & said why did I lie about being a virgin. I did not bleed during the actual intercourse & he claims my hymen was already broken which are clear indicators of being a virgin. I only felt pain during and after the intercourse & that was it. He has a fairly small penis & think the reason why I didn't bleed is because he never went all the way in. This experience has hurt me to the core, I feel used & I feel like I have been dragged by a truck & dropped off a cliff. Please, I want to prove to him that I was really a virgin when we met because virginity is a very big deal to me & in my culture. I feel deprived of a lot of things because he does not know the truth since I lied and said I wasn't a virgin because I was tired of the fights and arguing. Please help!