My mom is 56, tested positive for anemia 6 months ago, suffers sever joint pains, swollen hands and feet, shortness of breath, chest pains, had hair loss (seems ok now), nausea. She had redish rash all over body that comes and goes. She was tested positive for lupus anticog. and last nights test reveals inflammation of lungs/lining...to date doctors have only prescibed pain killers.....a rheumatologist saw her and gave 8 wk appt date...other doctors say she might have infection...am not sure if she has lupus, unknown infection? what else needs to be done for her to get treatment? what can be given to help with anemia?