I Had A Stroke In May Of This Year &

I had a stroke in May of this year & I have to have a bowl movement & my stools are hard rocks & I can't get them out it seems real dry... I eat fruits vegetables daily a lot I drink 8-10 bottles of water a day 1/2 c. Coffee that's all ... I have chrones 13 bowl obstruction surgeries complete hysterectomy bladder reconstruction & im 51 years old... Also factor 5 disorder & after the stroke the dr took me off comadane & put me on 350 mg aspirin... I've been on fentanyl patch for 12 years 75mg every 3rd day.. I had chronic diarrhea before the stroke & also when I pass gas it comes out the vagina I sometimes urinate blood I drink 2T olive oil daily I take 2 T flax seed powder can u please help also I have chronic pain deep inside my colon for more than a year getting worse... Cannot have a colonoscopy for every one I had it caused the adhesions in my small bowl to strangel it & cause blockage & emergency surgery.....my surgeon said my small bowel is like yarn dipped in glue n rolled in a ball & I cannot have anymore surgery I will die.... Please can u help releave my bowl problem? Thank u so much.... Kristine