I Have Acid Reflux With Urinary Leakage.

Ok i am a 6 5 250lbs 29 yr old male i have acid reflux alot, night sweats about 3 times a month, urinary leakage after I pee, I also wake up mornings with about a silver dollar size spot of urine in my pants and sometimes just totally wet. sometimes it happens when relaxed/just resting and it happens with no urge. It started when I about 11 and I am in late 20s now. Doc I have always been to embarrassed to go to a doctor and was just wondering what you think i have? Thanks doc This is what I have done to treat so far: Just wear a diaper when sleeping or resting for leakage and reflux I sleep elevated and when its real bad I will drink apple cider vinegar or take over the counter medication for it, night sweat part I just have to change sheets and everything. I also get reflux when working out or playing sports. so are these things I am going through related? What would you call the things I have or call the things I am going throu an how would you treat these things? Thanks