Hello
Thanks for query.Based on the facts that you have narrated I would state that your husband is gets good hard erection but ejaculates even with slight sexual stimuli like touching your private parts .This is called as
Premature Ejaculation .
Since he is already operated for
Phimosis his problem of premature ejaculation is not due to Phimosis.
The problem of premature ejaculation is very common sexual problem and almost 50% of the males suffer this problem and is due to what is called as Performance
anxiety..
Following general measures will help to get hard sustainable erection and delay ejaculation.
1) Practice regular moderate exercise for 45 minutes followed by
meditation for 1/2 hour.
2)Take high protein diet with fruits,vegetables and Vitamins A C D E and Zinc.
3) Take 6-8 almonds in the morning .
4) Avoid alcohol and
smoking .
Taking combination of
Sildenafil and Dapoxetin one hour before planned sexual activities will help to get good hard sustainable erection and to delay ejaculation .
Consulting a qualified
sexologist to learn and modify sex technique like stop and start technique or squeeze technique will help to resolve his problem.
Do not worry this can be cured what you need is judicious efforts and patience.
Dr.Patil