I have redness in my groin bilaterally. I have had it for a month with redness, irritation and some small red bumps. I also recently developed a rash on my left hip. No itching, but much irritation that I can no longer wear underpants. It is getting quite painful and has given me some sharp pains in that area. I am a retired nurse and have inspected the area as well as i can, but don t really see much besides redness that is increasing, along with the other symptoms. My husband and I are in the late 70 s and are sexually active, but only with each other. He has no symptoms. Is this scabies?