Hi ,, i had a protected oral done on me by a sex worker ( Black ) and penetrated her for about a minute or so ,, kissed her and she sucked my nipple ..no symptoms after six weeks other than cold sores on lips that appeared a week ago ,, was stupid enough to have sex with wife but without ejaculation inside , precum may be .. exactly 12 days after that she had a severe headache for a couple of days , shortness of breath ' weakness , musles ache , nausea ...for a bout 3-4 days but she used Primolut N 5 mg for the first time to dealy the period ,, she had her period 2 days after she stopped , the symptoms appeared a week after stopping it , period finnished in 4 days ,,, could i have caught hiv from sex worker that i passed to my wife ,,, please help , i feel so guilty and scared to even test