Hello, i had sex with a female 3 times between January and February of this year. We wore condoms each time, but one of the times we wanted to try anal sex, so i had her put on anal ease and lubricate. I tried to penetrate with the condom on, but it was sliding off so i took it off and i was starting to lose erection. I tried for a few minutes but due to tightness, we gave up trying. I never penetrated the anus at all, but my penis did touch the opening due to me trying to penetrate. After that, i just wiped and put on another condom and we continued vaginal sex. Yesterday she messaged me saying she has Hiv/ aids, and im still waiting on her to get back with me. But i want to know would i still get it even if we didnt have anal sex or exchanged body fluids from that, just by my penis touching her anus? I am very shocked and concerned. Please help. Thanks.