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Penis Becomes Hard During Oral Sex But Not Hard Enough To Penetrate. How To Overcome This?

hi, Doctor !
so, ive been with my girlfriend over a year now and we are in a long distance relationship. We really love each other, we understand each other and everything is really good. The thing is..im 20 and still a virgin abd she isnt. I can get my penis hard anytime i want. Even when im with her. When we are in bed its hard but when she touches it, it goes soft. When she gives me oral it goes hard but not hard enough to penetrate. And when it is hard enough, it goes soft when we try to have sex. I m really attracted to her, i thing she is perfect but this is the onlg problem i have. can anuone help me please? Ive read that its the anxiety and i have to relax but its impossible to relax, i cant do it:( please?
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Im definately not gay. Im straight
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry much. Most probably you are right. You are anxious, about having vaginal sex with your girl friend. Means you are having substandard knowledge about vaginal sex. Normally men hve rigid erection when they have vaginal intercourse than oral of anal. Moreover, majority men are not interested in anal and oral sex because common consideration is against unnatural means of sex.

In your case, the above said clarification, is the main reason for the trouble in erection. You don't agree that you are not a natural vagina lover. That is the base of anxiety.

You need counseling. I can provide telephone counseling. You can contact me through customer care at www.healthcaremagic.com.

Hope this answers your query. Availble for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Penis Becomes Hard During Oral Sex But Not Hard Enough To Penetrate. How To Overcome This?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry much. Most probably you are right. You are anxious, about having vaginal sex with your girl friend. Means you are having substandard knowledge about vaginal sex. Normally men hve rigid erection when they have vaginal intercourse than oral of anal. Moreover, majority men are not interested in anal and oral sex because common consideration is against unnatural means of sex. In your case, the above said clarification, is the main reason for the trouble in erection. You don t agree that you are not a natural vagina lover. That is the base of anxiety. You need counseling. I can provide telephone counseling. You can contact me through customer care at www.healthcaremagic.com. Hope this answers your query. Availble for further clarifications. Good luck.