Hello 
Thanks for your query.Based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have  been indulged in 
masturbation since last 20 years and now facing problems related to sexual activities.
First of all there is myth in a mind of common man that excessive masturbation is the reason of all sexual problems
But I would like to state that it has been discussed in scientific forums all over the world and proved scienificaly that masturbation does not have any negative effect on any organ or system in the body.All the problems that you are facing now are mind related and due to 
anxiety. Following measures will help to boost up your level of confidence and allay anxiety and there by improve your sexual performance, 
1) Practice moderate exercise for 45 minutes followed by 
meditation for 1/2 hour. 
2) Take high protein diet rich in 
vitamins A,C,E,D.fruits and vegetables . 
3) Avoid alcohol and 
smoking . 
4)Take some anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday. 
Do not worry try to allay your anxiety . Your problem is bound to get resolved and you can have normal sexual life.
Dr.Patil