Since my hysterectomy, I ve had little to no sex drive. Is there an over the counter supplement I can take to increase my sex drive? I ve tried topical creams, but they all seem to be the same; mentholated cream that feels more like Ben-gay on my vagina, and is not remotely arousing. Those creams also make oral sex almost impossible. They smell bad, taste bad and my husband says his tongue gets numb. Is their a little blue pill (Viagra) for women?