i recently lost my virginity, iv had sex twice over the period of a month, with 2 weeks in between. each time after sex i get brown smelly mucus and it hurts to pee, and i always need to go really bad even though theres nothing to actually pee out and if i try to hold it, sometimes some trickles out still. this is scaring me and i dont know what to do. after about a week the hurting to pee goes away and my vagina itches instead, kind of like a healing cut. my mucus is not brown but it still has a pungent smell.